Tips to Succeed & Find Your Partner

I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt that this service really works. Why wouldn't it? There are millions of members and that means it's very likely there's someone who you will "connect with" living nearby. Someone who wants the same thing you do and we all know what you want if you are reading this post
Online dating sites can offer you a free service, or a paid for service- you will be asked what kind of service do you prefer.
Once you are a member of online dating site you can browse the whole database if you wish. In many cases the online dating sites have internet messengers (like ICQ,MSN, skype) and video messages now.
After you find someone that suits you, it’s time to send your first message. However, decide in advance what kind of goals you want to reach with that person.
Do you want a date, friendship or marriage, erotic chat only, erotic video chat? Whatever it is you wish to achieve, have it in mind before you start talking.

Your first message

Your first message to someone on the dating site must be simple and honest.
You can simply start out by saying, “Hi. I am Kate” or “Hi, I was impressed by your questionnaire. Let’s get acquainted” (looks like simple- yes, it’s truth).
For both girls and guys the first messages can be the same.
If you got answer an answer, its time to follow the 3 tips to your success below.

Tip 1. Be Honest
If you want- you can lie, on the internet it’s so easy to lie, but if you really want to meet the guy/girl you are talking to, you must be honest ( we recommend you –don’t lie, it will ruin everything one day…therefore be honest- each of us likes honest people!)

Tip 2. Be Interesting.

There is nothing worse than a dull or stupid dialog for online dating. You don’t have to sit and think up things to be interesting.
Ask questions of the other person, and one thing will lead to another. However, it’s necessary to be interesting( ask the other person about her/his hobbies, what king of music does he/she like…)
You must have things in your life that are interesting and that you are interested in. Find those which are common with the person you are talking to, and you will be interesting.
It’s so easy to be interesting..

Tip 3. Be Direct

While it’s important to be honest and interesting, you also should be direct. If you have decided what it is you want with the person you are speaking with, suggest it- be direct.
If you wish to start erotic chat, say so… be direct and you will achieve what you want with him/her - You have to get other person to trust you- otherwise you will not be able to break down the barrier in your conversation.

Sometimes you will get suggestions of sex and other offers.

If that is NOT what you want, say so too.

If it is what you want to do, go ahead and make your plans and suggestions. Be direct in all cases. It’s the best road to where you wish to go and don’t forget : Trust is a two way street- you get it if you give it!

Online dating can bring you in contact with thousands of people and this is something you could not be able to do otherwise. Follow the three tips above and you will reach you goals.